Romance and Passion

We are all born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end. - Benjamin Disraeli

Reminisce…..

When was the last time you and your spouse went on a first date? Think. Was it a long, long time ago? Come on think. You have to remember. True to many people that they had butterflies in the stomach during the proverbial first date.

Alex and Nina are happily married for the past 26 years. Their first date happened 28 years ago. It was a simple dinner date on their favorite restaurant. Nina recalled that she was very nervous. She stayed in the mirror for two long hours checking for stray hair or crumpled dress. Her heart was beating so fast. After so many years she still feels quite nervous every time her husband asks her out.

Did you get a little nervous? Or anxious? Ever wonder why? I suppose your heart was beating faster, making a faint throb on your chest. You got nervous because you wanted to make sure that everything would turn out right. The date itself was important to you. You wanted it to be perfect.

Belle stammers when she is nervous. She’s also clumsy. Don asked her out for the first time to dine. She agreed. There on the restaurant happened the most unforgettable scene in her life. While they’re having dinner, she noticed that her hands were shaking violently. She tried to stay calm, but she can’t. She then decided to go to the restroom in the middle of the dinner. To her haste, her heels got caught in the lacy tablecloth. The moments she stepped forward, the tablecloth and the rest of the food on top of it moved with her. The food was on the floor and the dinner was a complete mess. Don just looked at her in awe.

Prior to the date, you checked on things that you’ll need. You ransacked your closet. You looked for an outfit that seems to fit the event. A couple of hours before the big event, you took all your time in front of the mirror. “Did I forget something? Is everything in order now?” you asked yourself. Then you smiled. Now you’re ready.

You looked on your date. He or she was fantastic. You wish he or she also felt the same way for you. The waiter took you to the table you reserved. You can’t think. You don’t know what to do. You just stared at your date. You exchanged meaningful glances. You were brought back to your senses when the waiter asked for your order. You smiled again. You noticed that the nervousness was slowly fading away. You then felt more comfortable to strike a conversation.

Charlotte is a very shy girl. She doesn’t usually engage herself in chatter. But Brad has made an exception. Whenever he and Charlotte are together, he persuades Charlotte to express herself. After a series of dating, Charlotte’s friends and relatives are shocked to see her as a chatterer.

The meal was served. You both enjoyed the meal, and most especially the company. You asked for a walk after dinner. You head to a nearest beach. There, in the stillness of the night and sea, you learned more about each other. The wind played with your hair as you go deep into a conversation.

After a couple of minutes walking, you got tired and decided to sit down on the sand. The two of you became quiet, relishing the moment. Happiness was in the air. You hesitated to break the silence, but then you know that you had to voice out what you feel. You told him or her that you had a great time.

He or she felt relieved. Your special someone assured you that he or she felt the same way too. Perfect moment! You wanted that moment to last forever. You wanted time to stop in that instance. The two of you decided to have another date. You set the date you both agreed. Although the date set was a few weeks from now, you can’t wait for it again.

Since it was getting late, you decided to part ways and go home. You ended the date with a simple hug. At your bed, you found yourself staring at the ceiling thinking of him or her. You were unable to sleep. You kept on thinking about your date and the forthcoming second date.

Is it possible that these kinds of feelings would last a lifetime? How will you keep the excitement as the years add up to your married life? Read on.

According to studies, when two lovers come together, their brains begin to “fall in love;” thus, a romance starts. As we all know, romance is something that most people are searching for. Some may find it, but only a few could appropriately deal with it.

I know if my wife is around. I could sense her. I could smell her scent in the air. Upon catching her scent in the air, it makes me feel happy. I could see a sudden change in my emotion. I look for her inside the house and hug her tightly, whispering love notes on her little ear. Life like this one is so satisfying.

Romance doesn’t have to be grand, or a one-time experience. To live your life filled with romance is possible. It just comes out naturally. It is within you, and just waiting for the right time for its release. Just let it flow. Even small things like a touch, an audible whisper, a quick kiss or embrace can send a shiver to our spine.

A surprise kiss in the nape while holding your partner close can ignite excitement on your relationship. It is said that a love from your spouse is a fact, a stronger fact that is not reliant upon a one-time event or a perfect date. A true romance can be eternal. It will grow stronger as time passes by.